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Good morning. I had a couple thoughts I can share. 1. Is there any benefit to having the partner guess the answers to the questions? While it can help strengthen the intimacy if the answer is correct, it can also cause disappointment and resentment if the answer is incorrect, like "how did you not know that about me..." Maybe consider to weight the risks and benefits of that format and consider each partner answering for themselves, which is also intimacy building...
5/5/2020 02:24:11 pm
Thank you for the feedback. I agree with your assessment that getting an answer wrong can create hurt feelings. On the other hand, this method (taught in Knowing is Loving) creates a richer dialog rather than a monologue of one spouse offering his/her list of needs.
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