The goal of that part of Knowing is Loving was to clarify your needs, not to get them met. Your spouse IS responsive - he/she elected not to give you what you asked for. You should participate in more games that can help both of you find the reason for that. Any of the games, especially Bingo and Reflecting are great opportunities for you to explore that part of your communication
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